Law of Attraction – I Can’t Say This Enough!
By Sonia Miller | February 4, 2010
There are certain things that I’m a broken record about when it comes to manifesting. In part to help others and in part to remind myself of what I already know.
The mind is a tricky thing. When you identify an goal, dream or intention, it SO MUCH wants to immediately figure out HOW. How to do it. When it is going to happen… All the details.
BUT, when you get caught up in the how, you muck up the process. You actually get in the way of the magic.
Yes, the HOW has to be addressed, but not by your figuring it out.
Your job is to focus on WHAT you want.
The Universe handles the HOWS, by sending you breadcrumbs to follow.
THEN your job is to follow and ACT on the breadcrumbs in trust, letting go of attachment about WHAT happens with each breadcrumb, how it fits into the equation.
The breadcrumbs WILL get you there. It really is about letting the Universe lead you by the hand. But you don’t get to control the journey.
Today’s Note from the Universe says it all. (It is actually what inspired this post.)
Enjoy!
And…
Choose YOUR Reality! TM
Sonia
FROM Mike Dooley’s www.TUT.com:
“First, Sonia, completely forget about who, how, and when. Then, decide only upon what you want, the end result, with as much clarity as possible. I’ll shuffle the deck, the magic show will begin, and jokers won’t be all that are wild.
Gosh, you’re so much fun to watch when you read these things.
Deal,
The Universe”
P.S. Want to learn more about how to make the how manifestation process work in YOUR life? Join me in the now-in-progress f.r.e.e. 3-part course I’m teaching: http://www.ultimatemanifestclass.com. (MP3 audio recordings of missed classes are delivered via email as soon as you register.)
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Law of Attraction – Are you the way I was?
By Sonia Miller | February 3, 2010
When I was young, I wanted a lot.
I wanted a boyfriend.
I wanted to be pretty.
I wanted to fit in…
Those adolescent yearnings grew into deeper longings as I matured.
~ I longed for meaning and purpose…
~ To feel at peace in my own skin…
~ To experience intimate connection…
~ To be financially free…
~And to enjoy the comforts of a nice home, a great job, friends, fun, toys… you know, the good life!
So, as the Universe would have it, I was guided to learn about the very powerful Universal principles that are the foundation of the Law of Attraction. I began to study because I “wanted stuff,” but the journey turned into so much more… an unfolding awareness of who I really am. I learned that I AM, and HOW I AM the creator of my life. I learned just how easily and powerfully and quickly Source Energy works through my thoughts and emotions. And, I discovered that with some focused effort, I could REALLY harness this powerful force to my own and others great benefit!
On Wednesday, February 10th, I’ll be teaching Class #2 of The Ultimate Manifesation Tele-Series – (for f.r.e.e.)!
“How to End the Cycle of Frustration and REALLY Get the Law of Attraction to Work for You”
And I’m going to share the critical keys to success that escape many Law of Attraction aficionados.
In this class you will:
~Uncover the 5 biggest mistakes Law of Attraction seekers make: These mistakes cause people to spend a LOT of energy only to produce meager results if any.
~Discover the most powerful shifts you can make in your practice of LOA principles. These shifts produce results – period!
~Learn about my 3 favorite mental practices that transport your dreams from someday in the future to your present day reality.
~Discover the 3 most common LOA bad habits most people don’t even know are sabotaging their sincerest efforts and nip them easily right in the bud!
~Take away with you 3 things you can start doing right now to harness the power of the Law of Attraction and begin seeing results in your life right away!
Go to: http://www.UltimateManifestClass.com for more information or to register.
And because this class is part of a three part tele-series, if you missed the first class: “How to Blast Through Confusion, Overwhelm and Inertia So YOU Can Confidently LAUNCH Your Dreams into Motion”… no worries. You’ll receive the MP3 recording via email when you register.
Please join me!
Choose YOUR Reality! Tm
Sonia
P.S.
By the way… given that this course is offered in the spirit of giving (my 2010 New Year’s gift to you), I decided to go full-out and GIVE in other ways too!
~ After the class, EVERYONE who registers will receive the Success for the Soul® Abundance Package. A special collection of personal empowerment gifts (worth hundreds of dollars) from professionals and experts that I hand-picked for you.
~ Also, if you’d like an opportunity to WIN some Success for the Soul® learning products (books and home study programs with values ranging $20-$220 each), I’ll be giving away “virtual door prizes” at all three of the classes. Those that attend the classes LIVE are eligible!
P.P.S.
And just in case you need a dose of inspiration read about this Success for the Soul® seeker who was READY to awaken HER innate genius as the creator of her life!
“I learned that when I put out what I want REALLY, things start to happen. I am BEING differently – more centered, balanced and grounded and confident in who I am as a woman, a wife, a mentor, a friend, a sister – everywhere. I’ve finally let myself want what I want – to NOT HAVE TO work. I am now partially retired and have manifested a new car, our new spa and a new back yard in the past year.
Barbara Lee
Semi-Retired and Loving Life
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Law of Attraction – Assume EVERYTHING is part of your journey toward success!
By Sonia Miller | January 26, 2010
Just got back from my SASSY Mastermind Retreat in Arizona. If you didn’t get a chance to read about what it is and why I went, below is a reprint from my last issue of Soul Food. (To subscribe to my bi-weekly ezine, simply enter your name and email in the box on the right which says, “Get EVERYTHING you want from life!”).
Well, I’m off to Arizona for my first SASSY Mastermind Retreat! What’s a SASSY Mastermind Retreat you ask? Well, a Mastermind is a group of people who gather together regularly with the purpose of joining intention, support and purpose for the growth and success of all involved. The S.A.S. in SAS-SY stands for “Sales, Authenticity and Success” and it is lead by Lisa Sasevich, who has become my latest mentor.
Does it surprise you to hear me join a group that focuses on sales? Well, not too long ago, it would have surprised me too. “Sales” in my mind was a four-letter word, but oh how my perspective has changed. And THAT is thanks to another one of my mentors, Heather Dominick of EnergyRICH Coaching. Through her I learned that if I was REALLY going to be of service, that if I really wanted to serve the highest good of all, the “all” had to include me! I learned that I can’t live my higher purpose, if my business isn’t profitable. If I’m always scraping by, undercharging, giving away my work, exhausting myself… how long will I really be any good to anyone else? And really, what message am I putting out there? That we ARE meant to live abundant AND purposeful lives? Or… not really.
And so, that’s what my retreat is about… The ongoing journey of learning to walk my own talk, of really aligning with the idea that we CAN serve and give and love AND that money isn’t necessarily evil, wanting success isn’t necessarily materialistic, and business and spirituality are not mutually exclusive. As a matter of fact, now more than ever, we need to learn, understand and practice expressing spirit THROUGH business, our relationship with money, and our physical world!
Can’t wait to bring back to you all that I learn!
It was powerful beyond everything I could have hoped for and now I get to implement everything!
So… today I received my regular email from www.TUT.com where Mike Dooley teaches how thoughts become things.
This quote is such a great reminder: To REMEMBER and ASSUME that EVERYTHING that you experience is part of your journey to success. When you assume success and TRUST the unfolding HOW (the process of achieving success), you MUST be successful. When however, you focus on HOW to manifest your desire, you question, you doubt, you judge that what you’re doing must not be working otherwise you’d be “there” already… you actually just delay and delay and delay the positive outcome that become inevitable when your attention is ON THE OUTCOME.
Below is the TUT quote. Enjoy!
“People who do all they can, with what they’ve got, from where they are, Sonia, no matter how puny their actions, how tiny their steps, or how futile it may seem, simply have more fun. Way.
Of course, to the uninitiated it doesn’t appear that way. To them it appears as if only those taking gigantic leaps, who drive cars with fancy wheels, have loads of friends, perfect bodies, and fly around the world in First Class Sleeper Seats, are having fun. But what they don’t realize is that we’re often talking about the very same folks, just at different points in their journey.Coffee, tea, or a brand new Bentley?
The Universe”
Choose YOUR Reality! TM
Sonia
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Law of Attraction Radio – "Europe’s Secret to Success" with Natasha Abudarham
By Sonia Miller | January 9, 2010
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Please join me as I talk with Law of Attraction Expert and Radio host, Natasha Abudarham (all the way in Belgium!) on Monday, January 11th at 10:00am PACIFIC STANDARD TIME.
We’ll be talking about my favorite subject: Why the Law of Attraction ISN’T working for you and how to get results, finally!
You can tune in LIVE by going to: http://www.LOAradioNetwork.com/natasha-abudarham.html. And of course the show will be downloadable thereafter.
On a personal note, I met Natasha through our wonderful the-world-is-now-so-small internet technology, when she emailed me to ask if I’d be on the show. Well! It just so happens that we met in person at Lisa Sasevich’s Big Life Event in San Diego and had and INSTANT connection. She’s so wonderful, fun, lively and powerful. I hope you’ll take the opportunity to tune in to her wonderful life force!
Choose YOUR Reality! TM
Sonia
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Sonia Miller on blip.tv – "Your Soul Awareness with Margi Lantos"
By Sonia Miller | January 6, 2010
Boy! That was fun, exciting and nerve-wracking! (I’m gonna have to make peace with watching myself!)
Anyway, I’m so grateful to Margi Lantos for the wonderful opportunity to talk about success for YOUR soul, how to get results with the Law of Attraction and so much more!
To watch this entire episode of “Your Soul Awareness” click on this link:
Guest Sonia Miller on “Your Soul Awareness Show” with Margi Lantos
And to learn more about more about how you can awaken YOUR genius as the manifestor you are designed to be, check out my FREE Ultimate Manifestation Tele-Series starting January 13th!
http://www.UltimateManifestClass.com
Choose YOUR Reality! TM
Sonia
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My New Year’s Gift to You!
By Sonia Miller | January 5, 2010
I’ve been working on something just for you for a looooong time and I’m finally ready to unveil it!
Woo Hoo! Happy New Year! Drum roll, please…………
The Ultimate Manifestation
Tele-Series !
Dear Energy-Minded Individuals, Manifestation Students,
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to Actually LIVING and HAVING
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Do any of these scenarios sound or feel familiar… maybe too familiar?
- You can see your dreams. Taste them, smell them, feel them…, but no matter how close they seem, they still remain just out of reach…
- You wonder why dreams come true for other people, but not for you…
- You’ve been an A+ student of all things metaphysical. You do your visualizations, affirmations, collages, and read all the Law of Attraction books, but still NO RESULTS…
- You know exactly what you want, and are more than willing to do the work, but just don’t know where to begin… (or maybe feel too overwhelmed)
- You’ve successfully manifested certain “easier” dreams, but the big, closest-to-your-heart dreams still elude you…
- You are still searching, longing, and yearning for that “special missing puzzle piece” that will finally turn everything you’ve worked for into reality…
If any of these experiences are familiar to you, you are not alone, and there ARE solutions that make ALL the difference!
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Law of Attraction: Ultimate Manifestation Tele-Series
By Sonia Miller | December 18, 2009
SAVE THE DATE!
Anyone who knows me knows that I LOVE launching the New Year with Power and Intention. In support of all of you who want to join me, I’m offering a F.r.e.e. 3-Part Tele-Series (one that’s never been done before). Mark your calendars and stay tuned for details! Or to insure that you catch the latest breaking updates, feel free to subscribe to the RSS feed. Simply scroll down the navigation bar on the right and enter your email where it says, “Get Updates Delivered by Email.”
January 13, 2010 – Class #1
How to Blast Through Confusion, Overwhelm and Inertia
So YOU Can Confidently LAUNCH Your Dreams into MotionFebruary 10, 2010 – Class #2
How to End the Cycle of Frustration
and REALLY Get the Law of Attraction to Work for YouMarch 10, 2010 – Class #3
How to Break Through Your Own Glass Ceiling and
Finally Go BEYOND Where You’ve Always Stopped Before
Choose YOUR Reality! TM
(With these classes I’ll be showing you how!)
Sonia
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Law of Attraction: The Fastest Way to Turn the Tide of Misfortune
By Sonia Miller | December 18, 2009
by Sonia M. Miller, BBA, MSW
(Although this article was written with the U.S. holiday of Thanksgiving in mind, but it is applicable year-round!)
With Thanksgiving upon us here in the U.S. we are offered the opportunity to elevate our understanding of gratitude: what it is, what we are grateful for, and what we are NOT grateful for.
This holiday is lovely in concept, but as a life coach I can tell you that the reality is not always so wonderful. Rather than being an opportunity to connect with our blessings, this day often becomes a catalyst that stirs emotions regarding tricky family dynamics, the pressures of expectations, and other less than celebratory issues.
No matter what “thanksgiving” means to you, whether you are celebrating the holiday or not, I’d like to highlight the power of gratitude in a way that escapes many. And it is this:
Oftentimes, the very thing that you need to change an undesired
circumstance in your life is GRATITUDE for that very circumstance.
Yes! This is completely counter-intuitive. Why would you give thanks for “bad luck,” misfortune, or adversity of any kind? Because if you don’t, there’s a pretty good chance that you are resisting it in one way or another, even if you think you are “going with the flow” or surrendering. Anything other than outright gratitude for your misfortune, may mean that at best, you are keeping the situation in a holding pattern, and at worst, you are magnifying it by fighting against it. What you resist persists, right?
Why Gratitude for Adversity works:
Giving and receiving are one and the same. They are part of a constant flow. When we give, we are participating in the Universe’s eternal flow of abundance. When we receive we are also participating in that flow. Abundance and well-being are NOT states of having. They are states of participating in the flow.
Whether we’re talking about money, relationships or health, you must join in the movement of energy. Everything is energy. Money is energy. Relationships are exchanges of energy. And health is the flow of life force energy within you.
Because the nature of the Universe is infinite abundance and well-being, it is consistently offering you all that you could need or want. However (and this is a big however) we judge what the Universe gives us. If we lose our job, we judge it as bad. If a situation doesn’t go our way, we judge it as bad. If we have to spend money we didn’t want to spend, we judge it as bad.
Every time you judge something as bad, two counterproductive things happen:
1) You called it “bad” and because you are a powerful creator, you MUST now experience it as bad, because that is all that you will allow into your experience, and
2) You’ve resisted it, which is a way of giving the very thing you don’t want lots of attention (i.e. energy) which simply magnifies the thing you don’t want.
This scenario is the very scenario that keeps us stuck and perpetuating what we don’t want for eternity! That is until, we change the scenario.
How do you do this?
1) Suspend judgment. When something bad happens refrain from the impulse to call it “bad” and instead tell yourself, “I suspend judgment. It is what it is. I’m willing to remember that Source is Well-Being. I remain open and receptive to this well-being.”
2) Then (and I know this is a big leap, but it works!) GIVE THANKS! Based on your willingness to trust that Source is giving you a blessing, even if you can’t see it or understand how your situation could possibly be a good thing, declare to yourself, “I give grateful thanks for this. I am willing to believe that there is good here, even if I can not perceive it, even if it feels bad or scary. I am willing to remain open and receive the blessings the Universe is offering me. I receive the good that is here right now!”
Giving thanks for the very misfortune you wish to reject is tantamount to waving a magic wand of transformation over the situation. This is because…
1) It is impossible to resist something and give thanks for it at the same time. So, any resistance that existed dissipates, and any power the negative situation had dissolves.
2) When you give thanks you are officially receiving. The Universe has been trying to give you something and now you’ve officially received. You have participated in the flow and now the energy of abundance and well-being can move through your life. If you do not receive what the Universe is trying to give you, it will keep trying to give it to you until you receive it. This is because that’s what the Universe does. It gives. It offers. It expands.
When you suspend judgment of what the Universe is giving you, then you can see the blessing. The blessing might be a new perspective, a lesson, an opportunity (maybe you had to let something go in order to receive something better). You may not see the blessing or understand it until sometime in the future. But if you move forward in trust, and receive what you’re being given, it will reveal itself.
Giving thanks when it feels good, or we’ve received what we want is easy, and yes it is expansive. But, giving thanks when it doesn’t feel good, or we can’t see the blessing – now that is downright transformational. You DO have the power to transform your situation. The question is, will you rise above your knee-jerk reactions to summon the creative well-spring of power within you.
Willingness.
Faith in goodness.
And a commitment to a better way.
It starts and continues here.
To learn more about the subtle nuances and advanced principles that make all the difference in harnessing the power of the Law of Attraction, consider picking up a copy of my book, “The Attraction Distraction: Why the Law of Attraction Isn’t Working for You and How to Get Results-Finally!”
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Law of Attraction: Another Success Story!
By Sonia Miller | December 15, 2009
From my email inbox to your eyes (with permission) …
Enjoy real-life stories of success, healing and transformation from seekers just like you!
Christine has utilized numerous Success for the Soul services over the past few years to keep growing, expanding and making her dreams come true. For long-time Soul Food and blog subscribers you may remember her from when she left an unsatisfying job in corporate America to open her dream consignment store (click here to read an earlier success story).
More recently Christine completed her six month group coaching commitment (a predecessor program to the Ultimate Manifestation System Boot Camp) and we celebrated together a whole new level of success, fulfillment and growth!
“Sonia, in the past six months I have learned so much! With Source as my source, I can live and experience peace, love, joy and hope in the face of the same situations that were causing the constant anxiety. I’m living from flow, faith and joy which allows me to let go of attachment to specific outcomes. There is a shift in the way I am holding money – I’m more relaxed about and more trusting that there will always be enough.
As a result all sorts of abundance has manifested in my life and in my business! I found 2 great employees that are perfect for my business. I’m now able to spend 2 ½ days out of the store every week, with a lot more flexibility in my schedule. Had 2 wildly successful events in my store. Am now paying myself from SISTERS earnings (a big milestone for any new business venture!). Took 6 trips away since January. And I have more connection to my community through events and joining women’s club.
My work with you has helped me grow into a new way of “being.” I feel more peaceful and joyful. I’m much more relaxed about my business, trusting that source is providing. And I live from a new place of service, feeling grateful all the time!
I can’t thank you enough Sonia! I so look forward to continuing the journey with you and allowing the next level of abundance to flow through and expand my life freely!”
Christine Johnson, Proprietor
SISTERS Consignment Couture
Sonoma, California, USA
If you’d like to learn more about how Success for the Soul can help you make your dreams come true, contact Executive Manager, Chris at Chris@Successforthesoul.com or 503-961-1228.
Please note: There are just a few 2009 private coaching slots left before the programs and fee structures change for 2010. We are currently accepting applications for a very limited number of complimentary Get to Know sessions with Sonia. Contact Chris for more information.
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Law of Attraction – Basic Fundamental Principle #3
By Sonia Miller | December 13, 2009
This post is part of a series where we dive beneath the surface of the Law of Attraction to explore and understand a) exactly how it works, b) when and why it doesn’t, and c) how to transcend the “quick fix” mind-set to let it be a reliable success partner in your life. To enjoy the full potential of this blog conversation, keep coming back, or feel free to subscribe to the RSS feed. Simply scroll down the navigation bar on the right and enter your email where it says, “Get Updates Delivered by Email.”
To start at the beginning of the series, click on this link: http://successforthesoul.com/law-of-attraction-the-success-for-the-soul-philosophy/925/
Like Attracts Like
• Whatever you offer the Universe in thought and emotion, you attract back into your life as a physical equivalent. A common Law of Attraction distortion is that the Law of Attraction is about attraction, or creating something that you don’t already have, or that doesn’t exist. The idea of the Law of Attraction is based in truth, but the problem is that it sets up in people’s minds the idea that they are separate from what they want.
As long as you feel separate. As long as you keep WANTING something you think you don’t have. You will put out a vibration of being separate and wanting and because like attracts like, you will experience being separate and wanting.
The vibration of manifestation is to get to a place where you feel that you are ALREADY ONE with what you want and that you ALREADY HAVE it.
Hard to wrap your brain around this one? Here’s the place to start. Try this affirmation every day for a month:
I am willing to experience my Oneness with the infinite abundance that is already here!
Choose YOUR Reality! TM
Sonia
To learn more about the subtle nuances and advanced principles that make all the difference in harnessing the power of the Law of Attraction, consider picking up a copy of my book, “The Attraction Distraction: Why the Law of Attraction Isn’t Working for You and How to Get Results-Finally!”
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