~ You’re single and would like to manifest the “Relationship of Your Dreams”
~ You’re in a relationship and aren’t sure if he’s “The One”
~ You’re successful in other areas of life, but when it comes to relationships with men there’s “just some block” or you “can’t figure it out.”

I’m a RELATIONSHIP FANATIC! I love relationships! Always have. Always will. And one of the things that has fueled this passion is that I’ve struggled with most of the above scenarios (and more!).

Over the years I’ve coached countless seekers in their relationships – through joys and growing pains. I’ve helped people manifest successful relationships, heal or navigate difficult ones, and survive and grow beyond the losses of break-up, divorce, and death.

I am excited to share all that I know and all that I’ve learned! My relationships with men are better than ever. My appreciation of them has gone to depths I never knew possible. And the power of relationship keeps expanding!

With this, I stand before you, my heart filled with love and gratitude as I joyfully announce the launch of….

The Success for the Soul® Relationship Mastery Circle for Women™!
Discover what It Really Takes To Create and Sustain Successful Relationships with Men!

Ready to learn more go to:
http://successforthesoul.com/relationship-mastery/

This year-long membership program is for women who NOT ONLY want to learn what it really takes to create and sustain successful relationships with men, but who want to see their relationships dramatically and joyfully improve in the year 2012!

* Learn and practice no-nonsense male-female relationship fundamentals, where we will explore the differences between men and women, so you relate to men from a place of increased acceptance, appreciation and feminine power.

* Understand the Energy of Relationships to harness Universal Principles that unleash magic in your relationship with yourself and with men.

* Discover easy and completely doable practices which allow you to see results in your relationships right away.(This is a hand’s on experience. You will be transformed and so will your relationships!)

If your relationships with men are important to you, there is everything to gain and very little to lose! For less than $3 per day, you could easily tap into a consistent stream of wisdom, fun, power and connection with women to elevate the very consciousness and skill sets that determines your relationship reality. You’ll tap into a resource that soothes your concerns, opens your mind to new possibilities, inspires you toward productive action, and teaches you concrete tools to manifest wonderful experiences in your relationships!

Ready to learn more and get your membership started today?
Go to: http://successforthesoul.com/relationship-mastery/

Choose Your Reality tm
Sonia

P.S. We’ve extended our “Try It Out Program!” If you register before our FIRST LIVE CALL on January 20th, you’ll get your first month for fr.ee (details are on the info page.)

Overflowing with the spirit of gratitude so amplified by this holiday season, I had to join in the fun and circulate the abundance I’ve been so richly blessed with this past year.

CHECK OUT THE HUGE SAVINGS AVAILABLE TO YOU ALL WEEK LONG ON OUR MOST POPULAR PRODUCTS AND SERVICES…
http://successforthesoul.com/cyber-monday-sale/

Choose YOUR Reality! TM
Sonia

P.S.  You’ll find some great holiday gift ideas!
P.P.S.  …and a wonderful way to support your own personal success, healing and transformation all year long!

Recreate Your Relationship Reality!
3 Keys to Transforming Loneliness, Eliminating
Relationship Sabotage, and Manifesting the
Fulfillment You Long For!

And it has been so rewarding to help people like you, tap into a new perspective and clarity about what it really takes to create fulfillment in our relationships!

NOW, I get to teach the Next Steps Class.

If somehow you missed it, IT STARTS TOMORROW!

Create Your Dream Relationship
Using “The Mystic’s Formula”
The Proven 4 Step Manifestation Process!

For info and to register go to:
http://www.successforthesoul.com/create-your-dream-relationship

Although the early bird discount has expired, I wanted to find a way to make the class as available to as many people as are called to it.

WHY?

For a whole bunch of reasons!

1. Because I KNOW how powerful this information is! I’ve experienced my OWN relationship success consistently, using this process!

2. I’ve supported and witnessed countless seekers manifest their own relationship fulfillment using these principles.

3. This class came together super-fast and we wanted to make sure the word got out to as many people as possible! AND…

4. I was thinking about how often I’ve heard students say… “Oh! I wish my friend “so-and-so” were here. I’d LOVE to work with him/her on this without trying to explain everything I’m learning….”

In light of ALL of this, I’ve decided to make it SUPER EASY, to re gister AND bring a friend at a 25% SAVINGS FOR EACH OF YOU!

Here’s how it works.

1. You register at the regular tuition (in full or using our easy-pay installment plan).

2. In your confirmation email you will receive a special COUPON.

3. Send the coupon information to your friend.

4. Your friend registers using the COUPON and INSERTS YOUR NAME IN THE COMMENT BOX during the payment process.

5. Your friend gets the 25% discount on the spot, AND…

6. Once we see your friend’s registration, we issue and 25% partial refund back to you within 24 hours.

So easy, right?!
For info and to register go to:

http://www.successforthesoul.com/create-your-dream-relationship

Still not sure if you should take the plunge?

CONSIDER THIS:

If the only thing standing between you and your dream relationships is a matter of making a few small, but VITAL shifts in your energy and perspective… why wouldn’t NOW be the right time to make those adjustments?

That’s what this class is about!

And below, is an example of what just ONE of many seekers experienced by make these kinds of shifts:

“After pretty much sabotaging yet another relationship with a great man, I went to Sonia for her unique brand of wisdom. I began a powerful journey, healing emotional and childhood wounds that had manifested into female health problems. I really came to understand the body-mind connection. The more I healed, the more I let go of control (or vice versa)! The gift of my work with Sonia is that it has allowed me to have an incredibly loving and emotionally healthy relationship with the same great man! Lucky for me, he never left! It also, has given me the tools to attract greatness and abundance into my life!”

Martha Sanchez
Mother and Nursing Student

I’d LOVE to share with you what I KNOW works!

Choose YOUR Reality! TM
Sonia

P.S. OH! And very important. Although we’ll be allowing people to register for this class THROUGH THIS WEEK. This “Bring a Friend and SAVE” Special is good through tomorrow 11/16/11 at MIDNIGHT!

For info and to register go to:
http://www.successforthesoul.com/create-your-dream-relationship

Whether you’re aware of it or not, 11/11/11 represents and expresses a very powerful energy. The energy of CHANGE. The energy of SHIFTING. The energy of TRANSFORMATION. …And it represents an amplified opportunity to harness your FREE WILL to express your true nature as an infinitely powerful being – The Ultimate Manifestor of Your Life!

Here at Success for the Soul we’ve been ushering in this New Energy of Light in many ways! And one of them was to respond to seekers who have been asking for support in creating fulfillment in their relationships!

If you missed it we had a powerful f.r.e.e. teleclass yesterday, “Recreate Your Relationship Reality!”

You can still grab the AUDIO RECORDING while it lasts. Simply register at http://www.SuccessForTheSoul.com/recreate-your-relationships
The audio will be delivered via email very shortly.

And… to build on this energy, next week we begin a BRAND NEW 4 week teleclass:
Create Your Dream Relationship! Using the Proven 4 Step Manifestation Process: “The Mystic’s Formula”

For info and to register go to:
http://www.SuccessForTheSoul.com/create-your-dream-relationship

This program is designed to be
Totally Effective,
Totally Accessible, and
Totally Affordable!

Here’s what just one seeker manifested by using this proven process:

“Happily Married To My Soul Mate!”

“As my coach and energy healer, Sonia has always been the voice of, “Anything you want is possible!” By the time I had reached my 50’s I had two divorces behind me and had left a career in corporate America
which clearly did not realize my purpose. I also found myself recovering from a stroke that had shattered my
sense of well-being. Sonia’s powerful and clear guidance encouraged me to keep reaching for my dreams. Today, I feel stronger and healthier than I have in a long time, am happily married to my soul mate, and have a fulfilling career being of service to women. It doesn’t get much better than this!”

MaryAnn Parrish,
Director

11/11/11 EARLY BIRD SAVINGS OF $95 ENDS TONIGHT AT MIDNIGHT.

I’m soooo excited to be sharing what I know that WORKS to manifest fulfillment in your relationships! And I can’t wait to get started with this class!

Choose YOUR Reality! TM
Sonia

P.S. The first 10 people who register will be gifted a private 30’ session with me to amp up their manifestation power.

P.S.S. In case you haven’t noticed, there’s been a “quickening” where the time lapse between your creative thoughts and your manifestations is shorter than ever. When you allow your attention to rest on what you DON’T want, it manifests faster than ever. And when you focus on what you DO want, THAT manifests faster than ever.

Wouldn’t you love to harness YOUR manifestation power to create the kinds of relationships you desire? The “Create Your Dream Relationship” teleclass is designed to support you in just this way!

FOR INFO AND TO REGISTER:

http://www.SuccessForTheSoul.com/create-your-dream-relationship

We have LOTS of wonderful new learning opportunities coming on line very soon at Success for the Soul and they are ALL ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS! (One of my favorite specialties of all time!)

If you haven’t heard, there is a F.R.E.E. Preview Class happening tomorrow:

Thursday, November 10, 2011 1:00 – 2:30 pm PACIFIC STANDARD TIME

For more information and to register go to:
http://successforthesoul.com/recreate-your-relationships/

AND… DRUM ROLL PLEASE!!! (Spoiler Alert!) I will be unveiling a brand new 6 part tele-class for seekers who just KNOW they want to go deeper with the transformational material we’ll be covering.

How to Create Your Dream Relationship! Using ‘The Mystic’s Formula’
The Proven 4 Step Manifestation Process unveiled in the best-seller, “The Attraction Distraction: Why the Law of Attraction Isn’t Working For You and How to Get Results – Finally!”

Classes start: Tuesday, November 15, 2011 1:30–2:30 PST

For more information and register go to:
http://successforthesoul.com/create-your-dream-relationship/

I’ve developed this class because I’ve had SO MANY SEEKERS asking for something like this for sooo long, that it was simply time.

Because of this, I know there are some of you simply chomping at the bit. And in support of you have have been so patient, I decided to offer a 3 DAY ONLY EARLY BIRD SPECIAL.

I’ve designed the class to be completely accessible, affordable and doable as it is. And, if it calls to you, you now have the opportunity to save $100! Offer Expires 11/11/11 at midnight!

Ever Ask Yourself, “What’s It Going to Take for Me to Have the Kind of Relationship I REALLY Want?”

~Have you noticed frustrating, unsatisfying patterns in your relationships?

~Do you feel trapped, powerless or stuck with certain unpleasant individuals in your life?

~Are you lonely, feel like an outsider, or struggle to make meaningful connections with people?

~Have you ever wondered if you were absent the day they handed out the “relationship how-to manuals?”

~Do you believe you have to become a “better you” before you’ll attract the relationship of your dreams? ( i.e. lose weight, make more money, have nicer clothes, “get it together”?)

~Are you still hoping and waiting for “The One?”

Well… the good news is that if you answered “Yes” to even one of these questions, AND you still haven’t found the answers you’ve been seeking, there’s no accident you’re reading this!

Yes! I’m Ready to Create My Dream Relationship!
http://successforthesoul.com/create-your-dream-relationship/

This class delivers proven tools and ideas that truly work and I can’t wait to share them with you!

Choose Your Reality! TM

Sonia

“I Have an Amazing Relationship and Am on an Exciting Journey!” I discovered Sonia at a point in my life where I was dealing with several life-changing situations (including death of a 35 year marriage, death of a grandbaby, death of my relationship with a parent, and both parents deaths). I knew that I needed someone to guide me somehow. Sonia introduced me to energy healing as well as several authors and helped me put my life back on the track I wanted. My focus changed from worrying to taking care of me and living every day knowing that LIFE IS GOOD! Not only did my emotional health flourish, but so did my physical health. The tools she teaches and shares can be used for a lifetime. I can’t imagine where I would be without her help. I feel gr eat now, have an amazing relationship and am on an exciting journey with him!

Elaine G.
Beginning a Whole NewLife Alaska

A: Short-term relationships and long-term relationships are like apples and oranges. To experience success with either, you must understand that they have different purposes and call for different strategies.

Short-term relationships serve two purposes: fun and research. They are great for exploring who you are and who you want to be in relationships. This is where you discover what you want, and more importantly do not want in a partner. So, go ahead, choose a woman because she’s gorgeous, laughs at your jokes, is a good cook, an animal in bed, and loves football. Your criteria for choosing a short-term girlfriend doesn’t really matter because you’re here to have fun, explore and learn.

In contrast, successful, long-term, committed relationships require three things as a place to start: you must have relationship skills, have a pretty clear idea of who you are, and seek a partner who has a good sense of who she is. You must understand that love is more than a feeling, and that it must be supported by actions of commitment, compromise, and sacrifice. You must also be willing to make the needs of your relationship more important than your own needs. This means that you need to know yourself well enough to choose a woman who will not require you to compromise who you are. When dating for the long-term, ask yourself, “Does she bring out the best in me and share the same values and vision for life?”

The Law of Attraction governs what we experience in our lives. If you want to attract a different kind of woman, you must be a different kind of man. By asking yourself the hard questions and being honest with yourself and the women you date, you will stop the revolving door and put yourself on the path to long-term relationship fulfillment.

~Do you feel trapped, powerless or stuck with certain unpleasant individuals in your life?

~Are you lonely, feel like an outsider, or struggle to make meaningful connections with people?

~Have you ever wondered if you were absent the day they handed out the “relationship how-to manuals?”

~Do you believe you have to become a “better you” before you’ll attract the relationship of your dreams? (i.e. lose weight, make more money, have nicer clothes, “get it together”?)

~Are you still hoping and waiting for “The One?”

Well… If you answered “yes” to even one of the above questions, I am so happy to share that I’ll be offering a f.r.e.e. teleclass next week that will shed light on the “Energy of Relationship” and some very easy, powerful (but probably not obvious) things you can do to truly Re-Create Your Relationship Reality!

CLICK HERE FOR INFO AND TO REGISTER:
http://www.successforthesoul.com/recreate-your-relationships

For those of you who don’t know, Relationship is one of my specialties. Not only have I’ve studied what it takes to manifest, nurture and sustain fulfilling relationships for well over two decades. But, my passion for supporting others comes from the first hand knowledge and wisdom that only life experience can provide… everything from manifesting the romantic relationship of my dreams, to relationship loss, to the blessings and challenges of navigating relationship dynamics with parents, siblings, children, friends, co-workers, clients… you name it! This class delivers proven tools and ideas that truly work and I can’t wait to share with you!

I hope you’ll join me for this illuminating experience!

In this class you will:

• Understand the key (unconscious) mind-set that pushes relationships away.
• magic that you desire in your relationships.
• Learn how to use your aloneness and loneliness to empower rather than sabotage you in creating positive relationships.
• Walk away with energy shifting, results-producing tools you can begin using immediately in your life to move you toward YOUR next level of awareness and expansion.
• Identify what you are REALLY supposed to focus on to manifest the relationship of your dreams. (Hint: Have you been making lists of your dream man or woman? This can cause problems!)


If there is any room for improvement in your relationship reality, attending this class is a must!


CLICK HERE FOR INFO AND TO REGISTER:
http://www.successforthesoul.com/recreate-your-relationships


Choose YOUR Reality! TM

Sonia

P.S. And yes, as is my tradition, I’ll be giving away hundreds of dollars in Success for the Soul products and services. But you must attend LIVE to be eligible!

P.S.S. Need some inspiration regarding how YOU can re-create YOUR relationship reality? Read what this seeker has to say:

“As my coach and energy healer, Sonia has always been the voice of, “Anything you want is possible!”
By the time I had reached my 50’s I had two divorces behind me and had left a career in corporate America which clearly did not realize my purpose. I also found myself recovering from a stroke that had shattered my sense of well-being. Sonia’s powerful and clear guidance encouraged me to keep reaching for my dreams. Today, I feel stronger and healthier than I have in a long time, am happily married to my soul mate, and have a fulfilling career being of service to women. It doesn’t get much better than this!”

MaryAnn Parrish
California





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]]> http://successforthesoul.com/teleclass-announcement-%e2%80%9cre-create-your-relationship-reality%e2%80%9d-happens-next-week/3819/feed/ 0 http://successforthesoul.com/law-of-attraction-do-the-words-we-use-matter-in-the-manifestation-process/3814/ http://successforthesoul.com/law-of-attraction-do-the-words-we-use-matter-in-the-manifestation-process/3814/#comments Fri, 04 Nov 2011 14:53:58 +0000 Sonia Miller http://successforthesoul.com/law-of-attraction-do-the-words-we-use-matter-in-the-manifestation-process/3814/ A client from my Manifestation Mastery Training (MMT) just posted a great question on our forum and I realized I just had to post it on my blog.  Enjoy!

Q: My sister suggests that maybe I should rephrase some of the wording of my goals – that the subconscious mind is very literal & picks up on all positive & negative statements, so instead of mentioning my illness struggles, I might be better off saying “I’m enjoying excellent health.” And instead of using the word cancer, I could just say “my dad is healthy & well on all levels….”  Advice?

 

A: What you manifest in your life is based on your VIBRATION.  Period.

The physical realm is a CREATION that is birthed from the realm of pure energy.  

There is only ONE CREATIVE LIFE FORCE behind every creation and that is Source Energy.  This means that nothing in our physical realm has power above and beyond this Ultimate Power.  (i.e.  your words, your subconscious mind, the experience of cancer, anything we “believe” causes cancer).  Nothing in this physical realm causes ANYTHING.  There is only ONE CAUSE.  And the cause of EVERY effect we experience is consciousness.

Everything that you could ever want, desire or imagine already exists as energy.  So there is nothing to create, there is nothing to attract, there is only SEEING what is already here.  How do we see it?  We put our attention on it.

Our attention is based not solely on what we THINK about it. It is based, actually more on what we FEEL about.  Our thoughts, feelings, words and actions all join together to comprise our vibration.

So, if it FEELS better to say “cancer-free” than to say “whole and healthy in every way”… then you want to use those words. 

The better you FEEL, the more IN ALIGNMENT with Truth and Source you are.  The worse you feel, the more out of alignment, in resistance and disconnected you are… essentially blocking the flow of Source Energy from your experience. 

The more Source Energy is flowing through your experience, the more abundance and well-being you are allowing.

NOW THEN… what can happen is that the more we contemplate the Nature of Higher Truth, your words may change.  Why?  Because cancer is not real.  It is a creation.  And the more you put your attention on Truth vs. the things we create, the more aligned you may become with the TRUTH that your father IS ALREADY health and wholeness and that there is really nothing to heal at all.

Wherever you are… the most important thing to remember is that Right and Wrong only exist in our limited physical reality.  Yet, in the realm of Higher Truth there exists only Alignment.

Hope this helps.

Blessings,

Sonia

Would you like to learn more about how to claim your power as the Ultimate Manifestor of your own life? At Success for the Soul, all of our programs are designed to help seekers lift the illusion of fear and limitation to live their life’s highest possibility.  Apply for a complimentary Get to Know Session to learn how we can support you! I have a limited number of openings in my schedule at this time. Go to: http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/VMZYJK6.

 

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]]> http://successforthesoul.com/law-of-attraction-do-the-words-we-use-matter-in-the-manifestation-process/3814/feed/ 0 http://successforthesoul.com/law-of-attraction-are-you-waiting-to-get-in-the-mood-to-manifest/3812/ http://successforthesoul.com/law-of-attraction-are-you-waiting-to-get-in-the-mood-to-manifest/3812/#comments Wed, 02 Nov 2011 00:39:39 +0000 Sonia Miller http://successforthesoul.com/law-of-attraction-are-you-waiting-to-get-in-the-mood-to-manifest/3812/ Are You Waiting to Get in the Mood to Manifest?

When seekers first learn about the basic premise on which the Law of Attraction is based, they get very excited: Your consciousness creates your reality, and if you focus your attention on what you want, that which you focus on will manifest in your physical reality.

Well this is true to an extent. But it is only the tip of the iceberg. And because many seekers initially miss the deeper principles that lie beneath the surface, they quickly become frustrated when their expectations of miraculous results fall short.

YOUR MANIFESTING ENERGY

You see, it is not enough to direct your attention on what you want only when you feel like it, while letting your vibration run amok when you’re not in the mood. If you want to master manifestation, you must understand that your “manifesting energy” is the sum-total of what you put into the Universe (i.e. your thoughts, emotions and actions). No, you don’t have to “be perfect” in terms of what you radiate. But you do have to be in alignment with what you desire more often than not. We manifest from the “balance” of our vibration. So, if you are in alignment with, for example, prosperity 49% of the time, and in alignment with scarcity 51% of the time… you won’t see a whole lot of progress. But, if you remain mindful and lean on some discipline, you will tip the scales. And when you align yoursel f with abundance more often than not, you’ll see results and build momentum.

Now then, the above example is easy to understand and apply because it is obvious. But let’s talk about a more advanced manifestation concept. This is where things get really interesting. And when a seeker is willing to go deeper with such subtle nuances and advance principles, they begin to realize their power as the Ultimate Manifestors of their lives in ways they only before imagined.

ACCEPTANCE

An advance manifestation student understands that the Law of Attraction isn’t about attraction at all. It is about ACCEPTING into your awareness that which is already here. How is this so? Because there is only One Source. It is whole and complete. Everything you could ever want or need already exists as energy. When you put your attention on an idea, concept or vision, you give form to Source Energy and it takes shape in the field of pure potentiality. In other words, when you ask, it is given. However, in order to RECEIVE that which has been given, you must ACCEPT it. You must become a vibrational match to that which you desire.

There are numerous ways that we block our receiving and one such way is that we are inconsistent with ACCEPTANCE. In the same way we must align with prosperity at least 51% of the time in order to experience it. We must align with ACCEPTANCE in order to receive. If you ACCEPT in your life only the things you like, but resist, reject, judge and push away that which you do not like, you will block the flow of ALL that is waiting for you in the energetic realm.

How do we ACCEPT more and more? We practice non-judgment. Yes, it is hard to accept things that cause us pain, frustration, and suffering. However, when we begin to consider that EVERYTHING in our experience is made of up the same substance – Source Energy – and that this energy is pure Divine Love – that it simply takes the form that we give it with our Infinitely Powerful Creative Mind – THEN, we begin to liberate ourselves from feeling as if we are at the mercy of circumstance. We begin to reclaim the power we’ve had all along!

And how exactly then do we suspend judgment and reclaim our power? A little willingness and some self-talk go a long way…

The next time something unpleasant or undesirable happens in your life, PAUSE. You can certainly react, feel, mentally complain if need be, but as soon as you realize you’re doing so… PAUSE. Once you do, then speak the Truth about the situation to yourself. The words don’t matter. The opportunity is to redirect your awareness to the higher truth of the situation. Use the following as a starting place, then trust yourself to contemplate and connect with what works for you.

SELF-TALK: SPEAKING THE TRUTH TO YOURSELF

“Oh… this situation (fill in the blank… flat tire, late client, canceled appointment, etc… ) is not good, is not bad, it simply IS. All events are neutral until I give them meaning, until I judge them. EVERYTHING is an expression of Source Energy. I accept it, exactly as it is. I choose to remember that the essence of it is the pure Creative energy of Source which is Love. I am willing to accept the Divine Love that exists right here, right now, into my experience… even if I can’t see it. Even if it is hard for me to believe there is Divine Love and Infinite Possibility in this situation. I ACCEPT good, well-being and abundance right now.”

Try it… you have nothing to lose and everything to gain… and I mean EVERYTHING!

Choose YOUR Reality! TM
Sonia

Does this article resonate for you? Would you like to learn more about how Success for the Soul can support you in claiming your power as the Ultimate Manifestor of your own life? Apply for a complimentary Get to Know Session with me to explore the possibilities! I have a limited number of openings in my schedule at this time. Go to: http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/VMZYJK6.

 

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]]> http://successforthesoul.com/law-of-attraction-are-you-waiting-to-get-in-the-mood-to-manifest/3812/feed/ 0 http://successforthesoul.com/the-7-tenets-of-the-ultimate-manifestors-code-of-being-tenet-6-direct-your-attention-intentionally/3740/ http://successforthesoul.com/the-7-tenets-of-the-ultimate-manifestors-code-of-being-tenet-6-direct-your-attention-intentionally/3740/#comments Mon, 24 Oct 2011 16:27:11 +0000 Sonia Miller http://successforthesoul.com/the-7-tenets-of-the-ultimate-manifestors-code-of-being-tenet-6-direct-your-attention-intentionally/3740/ (This article is part of a series that began with the May 18, 2011 issue of Soul Food.To go back to the beginning, CLICK HERE.)

One of the foundational principles that determine what you will experience in your reality is this:

Where your attention goes the energy flows.

This means that if you put your attention on things that make you unhappy or uncomfortable, the creative energy of the Universe will essentially flow to and through those thoughts, give them life, and poof! They become a part of your reality.

The reverse is true as well: Put your attention on that which brings you peace, comfort, hope and joy, and the creative energy of the Universe will flow through those thoughts, and bring them to life in your experience.

Your challenge and opportunity as the Ultimate Manifestor of your life is not to understand this concept. It is to actually become more and more intentional about how you direct your attention, moment by moment.

From Resisting to Redirecting

The concept is simple, but not necessarily easy. Why?

Because when we are told to “NOT” put attention on something, what do we do? We actually put our attention on it. Example: Don’t think about a pink elephant. What are you thinking about? Right.

The key then, is not to RESIST a thought that is contrary to what you wish, but to REDIRECT your thought from the “undesired” to the “desired.” What you resist persists.

So, your opportunity is to shift from resisting to redirecting your thoughts. From battling to befriending.

Example

You’d like to manifest a fulfilling romantic relationship. You’ve just had another one come to an end where you experienced a newly discovered dynamic which you dislike. You catch yourself thinking, “Ugg, it’s just one thing after another! I’ll never have a relationship!” Your attention becomes fixated on the latest unpleasant character flaw you had to deal with.” You direct a lot of energy mentally complaining and picking your ex apart. Guess what? This gives what you DON’T WANT a whole lot of energy.

Instead of resisting or battling that which frustrates you, give yourself the opportunity to seek out the best of the situation. First say, “yes” to the frustration so that it can release. (Telling yourself to get over unpleasant feelings is another form of resistance.) Then redirect your attention to positive possibilities instead of deciding this experience determines the fate of your future.

“Yes I’m frustrated. That’s okay. And now I’m even clearer about what I don’t want in a relationship which makes me even clearer about what I DO want. AND I learned that I ignored my instinct. I’ll never do that again. So, now I’m wiser and more ready for something better! As a matter of fact, the truth is that I rarely repeat the same mistake twice. I always learn something. And every relationship I have is better than the last. I’m moving in the right direction.”

Awareness is Key

In this example your attention has been redirected away from what you don’t want to what you do want. Where your attention goes the energy flows.

Being intentional about where your attention goes is truly a Way of Being. It takes practice. The more you do it, the easier it gets. And the more you do it, the better you get at letting unpleasant experiences guide you to more and deeper awareness about the thoughts and beliefs you hold.

One of the trickiest aspects of becoming more intentional is catching yourself when you’re being unintentional. In other words, our unconscious default thinking can be our greatest saboteur.

So, the key is to become AWARE of your default thinking. Once you’re aware, you can practice Recognizing the resistance and Redirecting your thoughts. The following exercise is designed to raise your awareness, so that you can effectively practice this tenet.

PREP:

Before even attempting Recognize and Redirect (R&R), take 15 minutes to sit down and consider a life goal or dream you have: Expanded Prosperity? Fulfilling Relationship? A trip to Australia? An advanced college degree? Once you’ve identified your goal or dream, make a list of every thought and feeling you usually have on the subject. I’m talking about the very human, knee-jerk reactions of doubt, insecurity and discouragement not what you think are the “right answers.”

PRACTICE:

This list of “negative default thinking” will become your list of Resistance Triggers. Now that you’re aware, every time you think one of these thoughts, allow them to TRIGGER the awareness that you have an opportunity to REDIRECT your attention intentionally.

AFFIRMATIONS:

Need a little help priming the energetic pump to practice Tenet #6? Here are a few:

• I am willing to recognize all limiting thoughts and easily redirect them toward infinite possibilities!
• I am willing to have my attention easily guided to the highest possibility under all conditions.
• I am willing to make the best of every situation no matter what!

Try it and keep me posted!

Choose YOUR Reality! TM

Sonia

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