Comments on: Law of Attraction – Creating Our Reality Does NOT Mean Controlling It

By: Sonia Miller

Sonia Miller — Sat, 25 Jul 2009 06:16:28 +0000

Dear Mark,

Thank you so much for you kind thoughts and words. I so apprecaite it and am touched if my blog is a contribution to others.
Blessings,
Sonia

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By: mark

mark — Mon, 29 Jun 2009 02:09:24 +0000

Very sorry for the diffiicult time you have gone thru my condolonces sincerally to you in this sad time, however your blog is something beautiful and special and thank u very much for sharing it with us all here, it was a bless me and my crew http://www.CostaRicaHQ.com/blog shall be moved by these words thanks

By: Sonia Miller

Sonia Miller — Fri, 26 Jun 2009 17:22:56 +0000

Dear Ben and Efrat,

Thank you so much for this profound comment. Ah yes! You’re writing about the very highest truth! My mom was going through HER experience in MY surroundings. And yet my role as her caregiver was indeed MY reality. The eternal opportunity BE a spiritual being while living a human experience. Blessings, Sonia

By: Ben and Efrat

Ben and Efrat — Fri, 26 Jun 2009 15:51:54 +0000

Beloved Sonia,

Thank you so much for sharing this deep, intimate experience and your realizations from the situation.

We share your feelings for the great loss of your mother.

You wrote that we can only choose how we relate, that we create the reality but can’t control it.
Well,
By creating a reality, you actually control it, otherwise you would not have created it in the first place.
The inner conflict as we see it, is more because you relate to your mother passing away as YOUR experience and reality, when it is not! It was HER reality even though you are related.
This is really tough to realize. It affects our relationship with our partners, children and other closely related people.
Their reality is their reality. Period.
Our suffering, is when we take their reality which is manifested in our surroundings to be ours.

Naturally, it is most difficult to be realized when someone beloved suffers.

Hugging you,

Ben & Efrat.

By: Sonia Miller

Sonia Miller — Fri, 26 Jun 2009 15:48:59 +0000

You’re welcome. So glad it was helpful! Blessings,
Sonia

By: Sonia Miller

Sonia Miller — Fri, 26 Jun 2009 15:48:37 +0000

Thank you Ryan. Yes, you’re right. All of our power lies in being SELF responsible! Blessings, Sonia ; )

By: Caren

Caren — Fri, 26 Jun 2009 15:22:06 +0000

Thanks so much. This is just what I needed to hear today.

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magnetic cash gifting — Fri, 26 Jun 2009 11:33:21 +0000

I am sorry to hear of your mother’s passing Sonia. We are co-creators; we generate generate thoughts and feelings, the Universe responds in the besy way it sees fit. This way may or may not be to our liking, but as you said, we should suspend judgement.

The only thing which we do control is our thoughts. That alone is enough. Ryan