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Law of Attraction – Get Results by Getting Out of Your Own Way – Installment #4
By Sonia Miller | March 26, 2008
(This post is part of a Law of Attraction Series about the 4 Law of Attraction Distractions. For an overview click here.)
Law of Attraction – Distraction #1 – Your Ego
Integrating Your Ego
Integrating your ego means noticing it, accepting it and knowing when it serves you and when it does not. When your ego serves you, enjoy it. Have fun with it. Allow it to be in service to your soul’s guidance. When it doesn’t serve you, then it’s time to manage it. You manage it through self-talk. When it shows up and is not serving you, you’ll know because you’ll feel bad in one way or another. You may find yourself in scarcity thinking. You may feel possessive or territorial. Or craving credit or acknowledgement. Or driven to prove something or make a point. You may catch yourself putting all the attention on yourself, not listening to others, building a case, needing to be right. If any of these things are going on and you’re feeling stressed, not enough, not appreciated, alone, judgmental, etc., then there’s a good chance your ego has gotten the better of you and it’s time to manage it.
Replacement Therapy
So how exactly do you manage your ego when you have recognized it and it’s not serving you? Well, this is when you go back to your replacement therapy. This is when you turn to Spirit and start talking and listening. Whatever it takes for you to connect with the broader perspective of you is what it takes to manage your ego. When your ego is in charge, you’ll find you’re probably holding on to something pretty tightly. This is the time to turn to God, so you can let go of the attachment, see things more clearly, and take direction from your soul. You’ll know you’re managing your ego well when:
• You’re breathing more easily.
• You feel as if you’ve let go of the thing you were holding onto so tightly.
• You feel yourself remembering you’re not alone, that God loves you and that if you allow it, you’ll be guided to your greatest good.
• You find yourself more able to be in and enjoy the present moment, rather than having your body in one place and your mind in another.
You’ll know you are managing any and all of your human tendencies, instincts and states of consciousness well, when you feel these ways. You might call this: “being in the God zone.” When you’re in the God zone, your soul has taken back the reigns of your life – taken back the reigns from your ego, from your attachment, from your emotions and from your limiting beliefs.
Stay tuned for more on The Ego.
To learn more about how to harness the Law of Attraction by getting out of your own way, look for my upcoming book, The Attraction Distraction: Why the Law of Attraction Isn’t Working for You and How to Get Results – FINALLY!
Choose Your Reality! tm
Sonia
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