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Law of Attraction – Pulling Back the Curtain

By Sonia Miller | August 9, 2010

You know how in my last post I wrote about how manifestation can be messy?  Well, I’m so committed to seekers getting the TRUTH about manifestation and the Law of Attraction, that I’m going to let you see the woman behind the curtain, so to speak.  I want you do know just how messy manifestation can be.  Why?  Because when seekers hit THESE places on their journey’s they often think:

These are all distortions and myths and it is these kinds of misunderstandings that really stop us form going beyond where we’ve gone before in our lives.

….So… here’s what happened.  If you’ve been keeping up with past blog posts and read “My Story,” you know that WHILE I’m experiencing all kinds of success in terms of life purpose and career, my personal life has been “challenging” to say the least.  (Between you, me and the entire cyber-Universe, if I could maintain a sense of professionalism and credibility WHILE describing the absurdity, pain and frustration that only a lusciously adequate stream of extreme profanity can do, I would…. But alas, only those in my inner-circle get a slice of “that” Sonia.  Suffice to say, I’m human like the rest of us.)

Anyway, the other day, I got a message from the mammogram folks.  I had just had my annual mammogram and they called me in to schedule “additional views”.  I knew this was a possibility because they told me sometimes they call people in if they can’t get a good read…. nothing to worry about.  Despite this calm pre-emptive reassurance from the technician, this voicemail sent me over the edge.

I got in my car on my way to go line dancing and I LOST IT.  I screamed at God.  I screamed at the Universe.  I screamed and screamed and gave myself full-on permission to “honor my emotions” (a very important concept necessary to prevent self-sabotage in the manifestation process… (Check out my book, “The Attraction Distraction,” if you need more on that.) 

I DOVE into self-pity, victim, not fair energy and had a hissy fit. 

I “tapped” on myself (I’m referring to EFT, a form of energy healing) the whole time I released.  I let it RIP. 

“Not fair!  Enough!  When is this going to be OVER??!!  Give me a (#@!*) break!  What more do you want from me!?  What enlightenment to you want me to reach!  I’m doing everything right!  Mom’s cancer! 4 years of care-giving!  Lawyers!  Divorce!  The dog died! And now you’re scaring me with the mammogram.  How much more (#@!^) can life pile on me!  COME ON!!!!

 

By the time I arrived at my destination, the stillness that comes with healthy emotional release came, followed by divine guidance.  (I’m telling you, if this concept is new to you, run a search in this blog on “Harnessing the Power of Your Emotions”)

 

This is what I heard:

“Sonia, this IS your life.  None of us gets to know how much time we have on earth.  You keep falling into “living for the future.”  When your mom was sick, you’d think, “When she passes, THEN I’ll get to live my life.”  When the home/business life/legal dispute earthquake erupted you thought, “When this is settled and we move, THEN I can live my life.”  When your marriage ended you began thinking, “When this divorce is over and I can start over, THEN I can live my life.”  Sonia, this IS your life.  Your life is now.

 

Then that familiar quote popped into my mind. 

“Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass.  It is about learning to dance in the rain.”  Sonia, your spiritual opportunity and the solution to ALL your problems is to remember that God is Good.  And God is NOW.  Even in the midst of a life you’re not happy with.  Be here now.  Seek out the joy that is HERE.  NOW is all there is.”

 

I’m sure some will read this and think…. oooh, how profound.  And others will read this and say, “Yeah, how many more platitudes can you spew off?  I’ve heard it all before.  “

But that’s the thing.  Just because we know something intellectually, and just because we “thought” we got that concept before and were done, it doesn’t mean we don’t have the opportunity to remember it, go deeper with it, and GROCK it at a whole new level.

 

The Moral of the Story

My soul ASKED to know that God is my Source.  When I asked, it was given. 

It was given by REVEALING to me the places my consciousness still believes that any ELSE is my source – people, places or conditions in my external world.  Quite simply, yet quite profoundly:

God/Source is all there is. 

God/Source is HERE NOW. 

NOW is all there is. 

 

The more we can live in the NOW, acknowledge and give thanks for the WELL-BEING that is here now, the more that:

a) we are able to experience peace and joy, and

b) we manifest even MORE well-being, peace, joy, and abundance…. BECAUSE THAT is where our attention is and THAT is what is blessed and multiplied in our lives.

Okay then!  Was that messy enough for you?  (I have a whole ‘nother level of epiphany for you, too, but I’ll save that for the next post.)

Choose YOUR Reality! TM
Sonia : )

P.S.  All this, BTW, is where Success for the Soul(R) is going.  Of course, I’ll still provide great support to seekers who are relatively new to the Law of Attraction.  However, if you are ready for the next level of expansion, be on the look out.  The Manifestation Mastery Circle, a very unique group coaching program, will be available for a special group of 30 seekers and will come online this Fall.  Stay tuned for more info.  Meanwhile, if this conversation is grabbing you, check out the “Beyond the Law of Attraction: How to Let God Work Through You!” free summer audio series.  It will give you a taste of the new horizons Success for the Soul(R) is moving toward.

 

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3 Responses to “Law of Attraction – Pulling Back the Curtain”

  1. Don Says:
    August 10th, 2010 at 3:42 am

    “Life is what happens when you are busy making other plans.” Thank you for helping flesh that out in practical terms as you struggle with the pain that is part of metamorphosis.

  2. Mary Says:
    August 11th, 2010 at 3:43 am

    Amen, sister!

  3. Janelle Says:
    August 23rd, 2010 at 2:12 pm

    Dear Sonia,
    I dug out your book, The Attraction Distraction again for another read. Your words definitely resonate with me. While I would love to see you have a “perfect life” so that I have “proof” of all this attraction stuff, I recognize you are human and I appreciate your honesty as you share your own journey. It actually helps us more as we learn from your own struggles. Life has a way of sucking into the drama, forgetting who we are, doesn’t it? Accepting “what is” – whatever that is, will always bring instant peace, although “happiness” might not be part of that peace. Sending you much love and support… keep on keeping on, your path is just right for you!! Janelle

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