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Law of Attraction – We Manifest What We Expect
By Sonia Miller | November 11, 2008
Dear Seekers,
I can’t thank you enough for your patience and support during my mom’s health crisis. She appears to be settling in nicely in to a new adult care facility and has "perked up" remarkably.
As the storm has begun to quiet and the dust has settled, I’ve had the opportunity to "honor my emotions" (those of you who work with me will know what a fanatic I am about this concept as a key to a healthy and fulfilling life), and sleeeeeeep. Wow. I’m usually a high activity sort of gal because I love life and there is so much I want to do. But exhaustion is exhaustion and we must listened to what our bodies tell us.
Well, I woke up this morning and I felt the excitement of possibility. The possibility of reclaiming other parts of my life. And so I was called to share with you thoughts and ideas that would inspire you as well. I haven’t had time to do much writing, so instead, I’ve been researching Law of Attraction articles and this week will share 3 with you that were my favorites. Enjoy!
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This article is written by Louis R Burns, and NLP (Neuro Linguistic Program) expert. In it he discusses how it is that we manifest exactly what we expect, whether we’re conscious of it or not.
"One of the things I consistently see people doing is presupposing problems.
We’re all trained by our educations to look for problems. Mistakes were the most frequent things pointed out in our work. Follow any weekend warrior sporting event and you’ll plenty of folks beating themselves up over the shot they missed.
The simplest presupposition there is, is existence. When you talk about something, there’s a presupposition that it must exist or else your statement won’t make sense. If I ask you if you saw the frogglewomp, you’ll rightly ask me what one is. You’d be assuming that there is such a thing until you had a chance to check it out (Google says there’s no such thing if you’re wondering).
When you’re communicating with people, there’s a strong tendency to talk about what we’re noticing, what we think the other person might be noticing or what we’d like them to notice. If we’re noticing problems and talking about problems, that’s what the other person will notice too.
The thing of it is that if you’re the one sending the message, the other person is usually going to go along with your presuppositions. If you say call me if you have any problems, the person is then going to be looking for problems. If you say call me with any success stories or other feedback, the other person will be more inclined to expect good things…"
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November 12th, 2008 at 4:22 am
Hi Sonia, it’s good to hear that your crisis is finally settling down and you’re back to share new thoughts and ideas to inspire us.
You know, we have often been taught to learn through our mistakes. In fact, we’re told the lack of it, we will not be the wiser. This are the heterosuggestions that has been implanted into our mindset from our childhood right up to our working life or even the senior years. It has become a natural habit that requires much reconditioning.
Personnally, I believe the first step to reverse this negative habit is to build trust in others’ abilities. To have trust is to have confidence, in your child, in your spouse, in your co-workers, in your employees so on, that they will be able to shine greatness in their own way and own pace. Just give them the chance without pre-judgement!
November 19th, 2008 at 8:51 am
Hi Wenny,
Thanks so much for visiting, for sharing your wisdom and for your encouragement about mom. It has definitely been a roller coaster… but she is doing much better getting care from a wonderful caregiver and we’re all so grateful.
BTW, I checked out your blog… insidemybubble… I think I tried to leave a comment, but got detoured by a technical gremlin. Great blog!
Sonia