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Law of Attraction – When EVERYTHING Falls Apart!
By Sonia Miller | August 2, 2008
My friend and client recently wrote me to share the TREMENDOUS news that her big life dream of becoming a nurse had finally been realized. I KNEW the road she had traveled and I asked her to write a success story for my Soul Food Ezine. She shared the following story of passing through and surviving the ring of fire and I knew I had to write a post about it because it addresses a common phenomenon in the manifestation process. Carol Dore calls it the "Falling Apart Falling Together" phase. Thomas Pauley refers to it as "Chemicalization." Whatever you call it, it feels like everything that can go wrong GOES WRONG.
But in actuality, when you dare to become a bigger version of you, aspects of the OLD you need to fall away. It is much like a death and rebirth. And, as we’ve seen in the life cycles of human beings, sometimes (not always) both the dying process and the birthing process can be painful. The way we reduce the pain is to understand it, trust it, and practice tools to navigate the transitions.
With her permission, Martha’s email is below. Read on as she shares what happened in the process of crossing the final finish line of taking her state boards to become a nurse!
"Hola Sonia! I would love to write my success story for you! What in particular do you want me to focus on? Not quitting the six long years it took me to become a nurse, or actually passing the state boards?
Speaking of the boards, about 30 minutes before I went in to take it….I was getting increasingly nervous and my stress levels were immeasurable!! I knew I needed to try to bring it down and somehow summon the courage to get through this and to allow my brain to actually think through the most important exam of my life. I could literally feel my confidence go down hill and my focus getting narrow instead of open and broad. I was going ’round and ’round in my head, being hard on myself, feeling worse and worse, and thinking, "Martha you are attracting failure."
I needed to do something quick and suddenly, I thought of tapping (EFT) and the success I had with you. I remember how when the emotions were so overwhelming and strong, the tapping brought them down and eased my heart and mind….so I knew that for what its worth I would give it a try on my own….so, I went to the ladies room and locked myself in a stall and started tapping!!!! All the while wishing like crazy that YOU were in the stall with me (perhaps you were in spirit) !!! I tapped the very basic content I could remember….memories of our sessions came to me; rating my emotions, tapping at certain landmarks, feeling grounded to mother earth, the top of my head open and sunlight and energy coming in and dispersing through out my body into effervescent bubbles…. I focused on the "feelings" and also I imagined that this is what my "nursing knowledge" would do when faced with each question on the exam, that it would just flow like those bubbles.
Then when I went in to take the exam… all the centering and softness I felt dissipated and there I was facing the computer taking my test and feeling powerless, not trusting and certain that I was failing with each click of the button….honestly, I REALLY don’t know how I made it through the four hours and 15 minutes of the torturous test. I wanted to quit so badly and tears were on the verge of spilling over. I found most of the questions extremely difficult and complex. I was not able to "think" At one point I just put my head into my hands and almost went "there." I almost gave up…but I knew I need to at least finish the darn test.
Waiting for three days before I got my results was beyond overwhelming. I haven’t cried like that in years Sonia. I cried in the shower, I cried at the grocery store, I cried when my guy would call (especially just hearing his voice), I went to the cave and cried and cried for those three days, total pity party. I guess I needed to release all that was there from who knows how long.
I was so sure I’d failed, that I couldn’t bring myself to check the results on line.
Then in the hours of the morning, my phone rang. I heard my guy’s voice. He said, "You’re a nurse." He went online and found out for me!
Finally, an "official" nurse; the nurse that I’ve always felt I am!"
STAY TUNED To learn more about "falling apart, falling together" phenomenon. To read Martha’s entire success story, be sure you’re subscribed to Sonia Miller’s Soul Food Ezine (see sign-up at right).
Choose Your Reality! tm
Sonia
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October 22nd, 2008 at 7:56 pm
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